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How you will know who are your soulmates ? Good question
1- soulmates are all those in your soul group ( level ) in practical this mean all those who see life as you .. this you can know when you ask something like “what is life for you ” if it very similar to what you will replay for this question it is a good start
2 – how can I find my soulmates ? You can find out potential soulmates with our soulmate finder application, it will show you who are your potential soul mate in any city around the world and also among your facebook friends. this application check the matching between people according to the spiritual forces that guide them in life.
3 – If I found someone I like, how I can be sure he/she is my soulmate’s ?
Obviously only time will tell but there is another tool to check it and combined with the other 2 methods above this 3 ways tools gives 90% accuracy in predicting soulmates connections. The third method is name matching ( I have posted already article here that explain the importance of voice and sounds in our life, so as our names are used often in connection with us they give us influence over the years, so our names are also part of who we are and all those who fit you on your name level are also potential soulmates with you, I didn’t make the program yet for this, but you can contact me if you wish to know your soulmates, according to your names.
I didn’t make the program yet for this, but you can contact me if you wish to know your soulmates, according to your names.
When combining all those 3 methods, you get 90% accuracy of soul mate match…
I made hundereds of testings on this with real soulmates ( people who are in love for over 20 years )
For sure, without you see the other side in live video audio connection, as in skype, be skeptic all the time on every thing and even then only after min. 18 months of internet connection you can be sure it is the real love of soulmates, unless you will meet sooner in real life, so yes it is harder to find someone on the internet, but it is possible and some time the only way, to find the highest form of love – soul mate love … – Erran Bar-Shushan
I have found my soulmate with the help of my soulmate matching algorithm
You can find your potential soul mates in any place around the world in any age with my unique facebook program – and its free… https://apps.facebook.com/findangels
Though I’m attracted to the mystical aspects of the life, I’m in my nature very skeptic and never take things as facts just cause some one say they are, but if it really interesting me, I will do anything in my power to prove or dismiss it my self. Such is the case with the question many ask themselves ( I suppose… ) so how did I find out that I have soul ? Who say there is soul any way? How can anyone prove it ?
Well it turn out there is a way – OBE ( out of body experience ) While it may occur spontaneously or in near death experiences, there is a way in specific meditation, to actually get out of the body, I did it 4 times, till at the forth time, I met an angel… so here I got 2 birds in one test. 😉 well it turn out ( as the angel transmit this info to me ) I was not ready to do such out of body travels, so I got last warnings from this angel, to never try it again, if I want to ever come back to life… I will post about all this also..
OK, so now from this I know there are souls and angels, and what I know about soulmates ?
Well if there are souls and I wasn’t ready to travel out of my body any more, it’s mean one thing, the souls are in the bodies for get ready… ready for what? you would ask,.. Well this I knew from my last travel also, as I went up and outside my house via the roof ( for the first time by the way ), to the sky and looked up there was no sky, well not the one we normally used to see, it was all bright light radiate the feeling of love, and I felt so small and such a nothing beside it, but I wanted to go upper into it and be part of this endless love, but then right after, I saw this angel beside me, so from this I knew I wasnt ready for all the love and need to learn much more about it and become love, so I will be able to stay there, cause it is all I wished for, to be there inside this endless feeling of love, that nothing like that exist in life, the only feeling that can come slightly close to it happen, when you are in love, in deep love, when you hug your love one you may feel this divine feeling of love, between you, uniting you in this divine feeling of love, such feeling I do have with my soulmate, that I recently found, and this also happened because of my research into the spiritual aspects of life… So here again I know soulmates is a real thing, because I’m living in love with one of my soulmates, I wrote about soulmates in my first article here: https://soulmatelove.wordpress.com/2014/09/06/how-to-find-your-soulmate-love/
Here is more information about the OBE if some one wish to try it… and you can contact me if you’ll need help with this…
An out-of-body experience is a condition usually occurring spontaneously during meditation, deep sleep, hypnosis, shamanic trance, sensory-deprivation, anesthesia, extreme illness or trauma, in which one finds themselves outside their physical body, yet remaining fully conscious and perceiving everything normally. Robert Monroe describes it as“an altered state of consciousness in which the subject feels that hismind or self-awareness is separated from his physical body and this self-awareness has a vivid and real sense about it, quite different from a dream.”
The experience typically begins by finding yourself floating over or standing next to your physical body, perceiving normally, but with a great feeling of lightness and power. You may see your physical body lying on the bed or you may just rise straight up through the ceiling. You may have a ghostly, astral body which can fly around or you may be a point of pure consciousness which can travel instantaneously to wherever you think about.
“Some individuals describe themselves as amorphous clouds, energy patterns, or pure consciousness; others experience distinct feelings of having a body which is, however, permeable, invisible, and inaudible for those in the phenomenal world. Sometimes there is fear, confusion, and a tendency to return to the physical body; sometimes there are ecstatic feelings of timelessness, weightlessness, peace, serenity, and tranquility. Some individuals in this state show concern about the fate of their physical bodies; others feel totally indifferent.” -Stanislav Grof & Joan Halifax, “Human Encounter with Death” (154)
“You can move through space (and time) slowly or apparently somewhere beyond the speed of light. You can observe, participate in events, make willful decisions based upon what you perceive and do. You can move through physical matter such as walls, steel plates, concrete, earth, oceans, air, even atomic radiation without effort or effect. You can go into an adjoining room without bothering to open the door. You can visit a friend three thousand miles away. You can explore the moon, the solar system, and the galaxy if these interest you. Or you can enter other reality systems only dimly perceived and theorized by our time/space consciousness.” –Robert Monroe, “Far Journeys”
Most OBEs have common features. They all typically begin while in an altered state of consciousness your awareness shifts to a point outside your physical body. The physical body is usually seen dormant on the bed (or wherever you left it) while a second, astral body is seen attached to your new space of awareness. This light, ghostly body can pass through walls or solid objects, float/fly around, and is sometimes even seen by other people.
“In the OOBE, the individual is near-totally conscious … Most if not all of your physical sensory perception is replicated. You can ‘see,’ ‘hear,’ and ‘touch’ – the weakest seem to be smell and taste. Your perspective is from a position outside your physical body, near or distant. In a near state, it is usually from a location impossible for you to ‘be’ with your physical body, such as floating against the ceiling. In a far location, it could be in Paris when you know you are in New York physically. You can observe events taking place, but you cannot change or significantly affect them. You can verify the authenticity of such events subsequently if you so desire.” –Robert Monroe, “Far Journeys”
OBE’s have been reported throughout history by people of all ages and cultures. The soul-body or astral-body was known as the “ka” to ancient Egyptians, the “siddhi” to Indians, and the “bardo-body” to Tibetans. OBEs are the main subject matter, described in detail in the Egyptian and Tibetan Books of the Dead. St. Paul seems to describe an OBE in second Corinthians chapter twelve. Ernst Hemmingway wrote about witnessing his soul leave his physical body and float around after being hit by shrapnel in 1918.
“Aldous Huxley, Goethe, D. H. Lawrence, August Strindberg, and Jack London all reported having OBEs. They were known to the Egyptians, the North American Indians, the Chinese, the Greek philosophers, the medieval alchemists, the Oceanic peoples, the Hindus, the Hebrews, and the Moslems. In a cross-cultural study of 44 non-Western societies, Dean Shiels found that only three did not hold a belief in OBEs. Erika Bourguignon looked at 488 world societies – or roughly 57 percent of all known societies – and found that 437 of them, or 89 percent, had at least some tradition regarding OBEs … Dr. Robert Crookall, a geologist at the University of Aberdeen and an amateur parapsychologist, investigated enough cases to fill nine books on the subject.” -Michael Talbot, “The Holographic Universe”
“It is quite well known, for example, that many cultures attribute to shamans the capacity to fly out of the body. In fact, a shaman cannot be anointed as such unless he has that capacity. According to Eliade, such flights express ‘intelligent understanding of secret things, metaphysical truths, symbolic meaning, transcendence, and freedom.’” –Robert Monroe, “Far Journeys” (278)
Many surveys have also been conducted in recent years testing the prevalence of the OBE phenomenon. In 1954 Dr. Hornell Hart of Duke University surveyed 115 of his students and found that 27 of them had experienced an OBE at least once. A 1966 study by Celia Green showed that 19% of students asked at Southampton University had had one. A 1968 Green15 survey reported that 34% of 380 Oxford undergraduates had experienced an OBE. Palmer and Dennis’ 1975 study randomly selected a group of 1,000 students and townspeople in a small Virginia town resulting in 25% of the students, and 14% of the townspeople answering affirmatively. Erlendur Haraldsson’s random survey of 902 adults found 8% had been out of their bodies at least once. And a 1980 survey by Dr. Harvey Irwin at the University of New England in Australia found 20% of his 177 had experienced out-of-body travel. All results pooled together, it seems an average of about 1 in 7 people experiences an OBE at least once during their lives.
“First, OOBEs are a universal human experience, not in the sense that they happen to large numbers of people, but in that they have happened all through recorded history, and there are marked similarities in the experience among people who are otherwise extremely different in terms of cultural background. One can find reports of OOBEs by housewives in Kansas which closely resemble accounts of OOBEs from ancient Egyptian or oriental sources. Second, the OOBE is generally a once-in-a-lifetime experience, seemingly experienced by ‘accident.’ Illnesses sometimes bring it about, especially illnesses which are almost fatal. Great emotional stress sometimes brings it about. In many cases, it simply happens during sleep without our having any idea of what might have caused it. In very rare instances it seems to have been brought about by a deliberate attempt. Third, the experience of an OOBE is usually one of the most profound experiences of a person’s life, and radically alters his beliefs. This is usually expressed as, ‘I no longer [merely] believe in survival of death or an immortal soul, I know that I will survive death.’ The person feels that he has directly experienced being alive and conscious without his physical body, and therefore knows that he possesses some kind of soul that will survive bodily death.” –Robert Monroe, “Journeys Out of the Body”
In Robert Monroe’s book “Far Journeys” he shares many recorded accounts of OBEs including the following: “When I was approximately ten years old I was living together with my older brother at my uncle’s house, a major in the U.S. Army Medical Corps. One day I was reclined on my bed quite awake and was looking at the ceiling beams of the old Spanish building where the living quarters were located. I was saying to myself many questions such as what was I doing there and who was I. All of a sudden I get up from the bed and start walking toward the next room. At that moment I felt a strange sensation in me; it was a sensation of weightlessness and a strange mix of a sense of a feeling of joy. I turned back in my steps in order to go back to bed when to my big surprise I saw myself reclined on the bed. This surprising experience at that very small age gave me the kind of a jerk which, so to say, shook me back to my body.”
When talking about these subjects at work I found that one of my colleagues, while under anesthesia for an operation, found himself out-of-body hovering against the ceiling in the corner of the Operating Room where he watched his body and the surgeons perform the entire procedure. It turns out this is actually a fairly common occurrence. Dr. Michael Rawlings recorded the account of one patient who remembered what the doctor was wearing and what he did during an emergency procedure, which was seemingly impossible because the patient was in a coma at the time.
“Out-of-body experience also eventually became a relatively common subject, as more and more surgical patients reported that they witnessed their entire operations and heard everything that was said in the operating room.” -David R. Hawkins, M.D., Ph.D., “Power Vs. Force”
“Experiencing an OBE during cardiac arrest is relatively common, so common that Michael B. Sabom, a cardiologist and professor of medicine at Emory University and a staff physician at the Atlanta Veterans’ Administration Medical Center, got tired of hearing his patients recount such ‘fantasies’ and decided to settle the matter once and for all.” -Michael Talbot, “The Holographic Universe”
Dr. Sabom interviewed 32 chronic cardiac patients who reported having an OBE during their heart attack and the results forever changed his mind about this phenomenon. He asked them to describe exactly what they remembered happening during the procedure while they were out-of-body:
“26 gave correct but general descriptions, 6 gave highly detailed and accurate descriptions of their own resuscitation, and 1 gave a blow-by-blow accounting so accurate that Sabom was stunned. The results inspired him to delve even deeper into the phenomenon … he has now become an ardent believer and lectures widely on the subject.” -Michael Talbot, “The Holographic Universe”
In conclusion to his research, Dr. Sabom stated: “[There appears] to be no plausible explanation for the accuracy of these observations involving the usual physical senses. The out-of-body hypothesis simply seems to fit best with the data at hand.”
“There are many people who have reported OBEs in which they saw things that really did happen. The most common of these are the descriptions by patients undergoing surgery, who claim to have witnessed the whole procedure from outside their body. Some have reported details of the procedure that they could not have possibly known, such as where the doctors put gall stones that were removed. Some patients have accurately repeated conversations that went on during the surgery. Skeptics may dismiss such cases by theorizing that some subconscious part of the patient still had cognitive abilities during the operation, and assuming that somehow the patient accessed this subconscious memory when they awoke. This theory cannot explain the less common cases where OBE subjects have reported what was happening in a different room. These seem to suggest that the subject could actually see some part of physical reality.” –Robert Peterson, “Out of Body Experiences”
My fiancé Petchara has also experienced OBEs many times periodically throughout her life. Always during sleep, having drifted off into the subconscious realms, there comes a self-reflexive moment where she finds herself floating in her room with a light-body while fully aware that her physical body is asleep on the bed. From there she usually leaves through the closed window by her bed and floats over the roofs/houses/roads in her village. On many occasions she has astrally projected to the houses of classmates, houses she had never visited before, and remembered specific details which were later confirmed true by her shocked classmates. During one OBE she found herself at her friend Tan’s house and saw orange stairs, a street sign, a van parking lot on one side and a small wooded area on the other, all subsequently confirmed true by Tan. Another time she found herself apparently outside her friend Oil’s new condo, face to face with a “do not enter” sign on the door and a large swimming pool on the left, both later confirmed to be true. Not long after meeting me, she astrally traveled to my old house in America where my parents still live and accurately reported the outline, white color, gray tin roof, garage, shelving and flower beds.
“I had a spontaneous OBE as a teenager, and after recovering from the shock of finding myself floating over my body and staring down at myself asleep in bed, I had an indescribably exhilarating time flying through walls and soaring over the treetops. During the course of my bodiless journey I even stumbled across a library book a neighbor had lost and was able to tell her where the book was located the next day.” -Michael Talbot, “The Holographic Universe”
In Dr. Stanislav Grof’s book “The Holotropic Mind” he shares the account of one Cuban woman who, during cardiac arrest in a Miami hospital, found herself out-of-body back at her old home in Cuba. She recovered from the heart attack, but came back to her body very agitated about what she had seen while astrally in Cuba. The people now living in her old home had moved everything around, changed furniture, and painted the fence a shade of green which she hated; all of which were subsequently verified and documented by her curious attending physician.
In Michael Talbot’s “The Holographic Universe” he shares the story of Kimberly Clark, a Seattle hospital social worker who never took OBEs seriously until an incident with a coronary patient named Maria. One day Maria went into cardiac arrest and found herself hovering against the ceiling watching the doctors and nurses tending to her body. She watched for a while and then found herself distracted by something over the emergency room driveway. As soon as she thought about this, she was instantly there hovering outside the hospital:
“As soon as she ‘thought herself’ there, she was there. Next Maria ‘thought her way’ up to the third floor of the building and found herself ‘eyeball to shoelace’ with a tennis shoe. It was an old shoe and she noticed that the little toe had worn a hole through the fabric. She also noticed several other details, such as the fact that the lace was stuck under the heel. After Maria finished her account she begged Clark to please go to the ledge and see if there was a shoe there so that she could confirm whether her experience was real or not. Skeptical but intrigued … she went up to the third floor and … found a room where she pressed her face against the glass and looked down and saw the tennis shoe. Still, from her vantage point she could not tell if the little toe had worn a place in the shoe or if any of the other details Maria had described were correct. It wasn’t until she retrieved the shoe that she confirmed Maria’s various observations. ‘The only way she would have had such a perspective was if she had been floating right outside and at very close range to the tennis shoe,’ states Clark, who has since become a believer in OBEs. ‘It was very concrete evidence for me.’” -Michael Talbot, “The Holographic Universe”
“In some instances of OOBEs the description of what was happening at a distant place is correct and more accurate than we would expect by coincidence. Not the majority, by any means, but some. To explain these we must postulate either that the ‘hallucinatory’ experience of the OOBE was combined with the operation of ESP, or that in some sense the person really was ‘there.’ The OOBE then becomes very real indeed. The fact that most of our knowledge about OOBEs comes from reports of once-in-a-lifetime experiences puts us at two serious disadvantages. The first of these is that most people cannot produce an OOBE at will, so this precludes the possibility of studying them under precise laboratory conditions. The second disadvantage is that when a person is suddenly thrust for a brief period of time into a very novel environment he may not be a very good observer.” –Robert Monroe, “Journeys Out of the Body”
OBEs are generally sporadic or once-in-a-lifetime phenomena so scientifically verifying their authenticity is an elusive task. However, with the help of many skilled astral projectors, OBEs have indeed been scientifically documented in the lab. For instance, in one experiment, parapsychologist Charles Tart wrote a five-digit number on a pad of paper then kept it in a locked room. In another room an experienced astral traveler laid down, shifted consciousness to her astral body, floated through the wall and accurately reported the number. In another series of experiments, psychologists Janet Lee Mitchell and Karlis Osis set up a special room for OBE trials at the American Society for Psychical Research in New York. They placed certain images, objects, and colored geometric patterns in various places around the room, locked it, and then had skilled astral projectors from many places across the country project in and record what they saw. Many of the participants were able to correctly identify everything in the room. In another series of experiments, Dr. Robert Morris, director of research at the Psychical Research Foundation in North Carolina, used pets to detect the astral presence of their owners. For example, during one experiment, a kitten belonging to seasoned astral traveler Keith Harary would always stop meowing and start purring whenever Keith astrally projected into the room.
“Some people have mastered the ability well enough to leave their body at will. One of the most famous of these individuals is a former radio and television executive named Robert Monroe … Monroe began keeping a written journal of his experiences, carefully documenting everything he learned about the out-of-body state. He discovered he could pass through solid objects and travel great distances in the twinkling of an eye simply by ‘thinking’ himself there. He found that other people were seldom aware of his presence, although the friends whom he traveled to see while in this ‘second state’ quickly became believers when he accurately described their dress and activity at the time of his out-of-body visit. He also discovered that he was not alone in his pursuit and occasionally bumped into other disembodied travelers.” -Michael Talbot, “The Holographic Universe”
“As an example of a real-time projection experience, I think of my nephew Matt’s two-week visit back in 1991. During this time, apart from many other activities, I coached Matt on projection. A few days before he was due to leave, while meditating late at night, I clearly saw Matt’s projected real-time double float through the wall and come into the room I was sitting in. He waved cheerfully at me and I slowly waved back at him, without breaking my entranced state – no mean feat in itself – immensely pleased that Matt had finally managed to get out of his body. Matt floated about the room, seemingly having some difficulty with movement and directional control, but apparently thoroughly enjoying himself. He soon floated out of my sight and that was the last I saw of him that night. The next morning Matt was very excited about his first conscious-exit projection. He vividly remembered using my technique and feeling heavy vibrations, then leaving his body, moving through the wall and seeing me, and us waving at each other.” –Robert Bruce, “Astral Dynamics”
“Considered as a whole the evidence seems unequivocal. Although we are taught that we ‘think’ with our brains, this is not always true. Under the right circumstances our consciousness – the thinking, perceiving part of us – can detach from the physical body and exist just about anywhere it wants to. Our current scientific understanding cannot account for this phenomenon, but it becomes much more tractable in terms of the holographic idea. Remember that in a holographic universe, location is itself an illusion. Just as an image of an apple has no specific location on a piece of holographic film, in a universe that is organized holographically things and objects also possess no definite location; everything is ultimately nonlocal, including consciousness. Thus, although our consciousness appears to be localized in our heads, under certain conditions it can just as easily appear to be localized in the upper corner of the room, hovering over a grassy lawn, or floating eyeball-to-shoelace with a tennis shoe on the third-floor ledge of a building… If the idea of a nonlocal consciousness seems difficult to grasp, a useful analogy can once again be found in dreaming. Imagine that you are dreaming you are attending a crowded art exhibit. As you wander among the people and gaze at the artworks, your consciousness appears to be localized in the head of the person you are in the dream. But where is your consciousness really? A quick analysis will reveal that it is actually in everything in the dream, in the other people attending the exhibit, in the artworks, even in the very space of the dream. In a dream, location is also an illusion because everything – people, objects, space, consciousness, and so on – is unfolding out of the deeper and more fundamental reality of the dreamer.” -Michael Talbot, “The Holographic Universe”
Dr. Clancy McKenzie M.D. The American Mental Health Association
“This love energy appears to follow precise laws, that are like other laws of physics, and which appear to be quantitative. yet it is equally as invisible as was stress at the turn of the previous century.”
The Love Energy – INTRODUCTION TO LOVE ENERGY
Proper nutrition, exercise and relaxation are recognized as vital ingredients for a long and healthy life. But there is a fourth ingredient that largely has been overlooked. This fourth factor is love, which can add as much to one’s energy level and to one’s longevity as any of the other factors. In fact, biblical accounts indicate that love energy potentially can add hundreds of years to one’s life – yet this comparatively important factor has not been studied scientifically to the same extent as the other three factors.
Even though most of us do not see this love energy readily, this does not mean it does not exist or does not have great impact. Take for example a person who eats nothing but junk food, smokes, doesn’t exercise, drinks beer and sports a pot-belly. Let him fall in love, and suddenly he has as much energy as a person who lives on energy food and exercises daily. Suddenly he can work day and night. What is the mechanism for this enormous flow of energy and where does it come from? How can we harness it and use it at will? These questions are especially important in the health fields, because this energy might also be the healing energy, or the life force itself.
The Love Energy – DEFINITION OF LOVE ENERGY
To begin to understand love energy, let me first give a definition that will make more sense as time goes on. I define love as an attention or energy directed outward, and the byproduct of which is happiness. The opposite is need or desire, which is the same attention or energy directed back to the self, and the byproduct of which is unhappiness. Reverse the direction of flow of attention or energy and you get the opposite feeling. Fall in love and you are in a state of bliss – but as soon as you want the other person to love you, you are miserable.
Fall in love and you have so much energy you can work day and night, but as soon as you reverse the direction of flow and focus attention on the self “Oh woe is me, aches and pains, etc.” you have so little energy you can hardly move.
Subliminally we do see evidence of this love energy, but we have not really analyzed it in modern times. We see this energy, for example, when a person falls in love, because we say “he’s beaming, glowing, radiant, vibrant, turned on.” Thus we see, at some level, the aura – which brightens in intensity proportionate to the increase in flow of love energy. Holy people, or saintly individuals, are those who become extremely loving, and they are depicted as having bright auras or halos, or as being surrounded by light. This “aura” that we see might have another name: In a dream state I heard the words: “The aura is the edge of the soul.” Interesting. I wasn’t thinking about this or looking for it. It was as though someone was passing by and just wanted to tell me that. So was this a part of my own mind? Or was it some kind of a visitor?
The Love Energy – THE LIFE FORCE
This love energy is the life force itself, or the healing energy. Need or desire, which is the exact opposite, roughly can be equated with what is sometimes called “sin,” and we have read “the wages of sin are death.” Or, “Touch the forbidden fruit and you shall surely die.” This is energy flowing in a direction opposite to the direction of flow of the life force, and opposite direction of the flow of love energy. There are scores of biblical accounts of holy people who lived for hundreds of years. These are also people who were known to be very loving and who are depicted as having very bright auras.
In another dream-state I saw the fountain of youth. I wasn’t looking for it; it was simply there, revealed to me and for what reason I do not know. It is not in some distant corner of the earth: It is within every person. It is a beautiful fountain of love energy in each person, waiting to spring fourth. What I saw was a beautiful outpouring of love energy, radiating outward about arm’s length. I instantly knew it was the fountain of youth – and along with the vision was the clear awareness that as soon as the person wants to live forever, he/she shuts off the flow. (One can forever want to help people, but to want to live forever is the wrong direction of flow of this attention or energy.)
This just might be what is described as the energy of the soul. You might have heard about yogis advising to draw energy from the soul, and we have heard the words “soul power.” How is this energy used? How do we draw from this enormous, boundless, unlimited source of energy and let it flow through us? One way is to do the task for someone else. This gives much more energy. Examples: a person who dedicates winning a race for a child who is dying of leukemia — versus running the race for the self. One’s chances of winning are enhanced if one dedicates the race to someone else. Another example of this was in the Tyson versus Holyfield fights. Holyfield dedicated the victory to God, whereas Tyson was fighting strictly for his own glory.
I’m not saying this is 100%, but it appears to be a factor – and the strength of this factor might depend on the intensity of the desire to do the task for someone else.
The Love Energy – THE BEGINNING OF THE END
A most precious 23-year-old daughter of one of my patients had Hodgkin’s lymphoma, and prior to receiving another round of chemotherapy she overheard her doctor telling another physician “I’m afraid this is the beginning of the end for her.”
I encouraged her to explore alternative methods, but the next chemotherapy was set to begin the following week. So I told her about programmed dreams and recommended she have a dream that would tell her exactly what to do.
In her programmed dream she was helping someone else who had a serious problem, and when we discussed her dream she added “that’s how I recovered so fast from the first round of chemotherapy, by focusing my attention on helping someone else.”
I really wish she had explored alternative medicine approaches, but I recognized that she was right on course with the love energy, the life force, the healing energy. She made a quick recovery from the effects of chemotherapy and I am hoping that the love energy enabled the treatment to be successful.
The Love Energy – HOW TO INCREASE LOVE ENERGY
While traveling across India I met with a highly evolved Kundalini yogi and I asked him how to become total love energy toward all people all the time. When this holy man finally stopped laughing, he wrote on slate with chalk (because he had not spoken for 30 years) and his disciple translated: “When you want to hit a target with an arrow you aim only at the bulls eye.” This makes sense, because we all reach out with a love-need combination, and to the extent there is need, there can be hurt feelings when those needs are not met, and the danger of hurt feelings prevents us from reaching out more fully. When reaching toward total love, toward the bull’s eye, there can be no rejection – and this allows us to reach out more fully. Furthermore, if we are loving the purest form of love energy, then we are identifying with, and emulating, that very source itself.
Bahkti yoga is the discipline of intensifying love energy. The total effort is to intensify love, and to experience constant love. The day is filled with devotional love. This can be practiced with or without formalized religion.
In our own daily lives we can sort through each thought, word, feeling, action – and put it on the scale to determine love versus need. By “need” I mean desire. This is most useful in psychotherapy. If a person is miserable it is because he wants something. If a husband or wife complains bitterly about the spouse, this has NOTHING to do with loving the other person; it has only to do with caring exclusively about the self and wanting more for the self.
Enhancing the love energy of the patient is an effective way to increase the healing process. This holds true for both psychological and physical healing:
Patients who are injured or who have serious physical illnesses, often are focused on the self and the illness. This shuts off the flow of the healing energy. Depressed persons are focused on the self, and this is the opposite of being in love or loving someone else. Persons who have physical injuries or terminal illnesses frequently are quite depressed, which is counterproductive when trying to get well. Anxiety accompanies depression and vice versa for obvious reasons. Anxiety causes depression, which is why sometimes it can be treated with tranquilizing agents. When persons are anxious, they are worried, consciously and unconsciously, about “what’s going to happen to me?” This is the wrong direction of flow of love energy and will produce unhappiness and loss of energy. It is little wonder that criteria for depression include no interest in anyone or anything, and, loss of energy.
The Love Energy – TREATING DEPRESSION
Article – The Love Energy INTRODUCTION TO LOVE ENERGY DEFINITION OF LOVE ENERGY THE LIFE FORCE THE BEGINNING OF THE END HOW TO INCREASE LOVE ENERGY TREATING DEPRESSION GIVING AND RECEIVING THE FLOW OF LOVE ENERGY
Depressed persons and anxious persons can be cured by treating their conditions through the love dimension alone. A person who becomes totally loving can neither be depressed nor anxious. While I use a multidimensional approach to the treatment of depression, and I consider at least 14 different dimensions of treatment in addition to medication, the one factor I never lose sight of is the direction of flow of love energy, and I always point out when the problem is primarily the patient’s need or desire. This same enhancement of love energy is very valuable in treating psychoses, because psychosis – as I will describe in a subsequent lecture – relates to a partial return to infancy, with all the needs of the infant. When a person becomes predominantly loving, this is movement away from the needs of infancy, and movement back into adult mind/brain/reality.
The same holds true for the addictions. At an addictions unit I directed, a counselor voiced the opinion that it was very important to show the patients that the counselor really cares about them. I corrected him on this and said it was much more important that he get the patients to care about him, and do something for him. He then recognized that he himself had overcome his addiction was when he began helping others with theirs.
Enhancement of love energy should be a part of every physical remedy, because it is a vital ingredient to healing. If persons are angry or hateful they will not heal as quickly or as well. There are numerous studies that demonstrate the enhancement of the immune system with love energy or prayer, but these studies are just touching the surface or catching a tiny aspect of this energy. A thorough understanding of the laws of physics which govern this energy is important, because it enables us to identify the direction of flow of this energy, and reverse it at will if it is flowing the wrong direction.
On a number of occasions I have read about a small town in Pennsylvania, named Roseto – which was studied extensively by medical researchers in the 1960s, because its residents were among the healthiest in the United States. Surprisingly enough, the people there smoked as much, exercised as little, and faced just as many stressful situations as other Americans.
After extensive testing the researchers learned that this community, more than any other studied, showed a remarkable cohesiveness and sense of unconditional support for one another. The conclusion drawn from this, and similar findings in the literature, is that all this interpersonal support brings with it the life prolonging and life-saving qualities.
The Love Energy – GIVING AND RECEIVING
I was interested that this study touched upon this fourth factor for health and longevity, yet at the same time did not differentiate between giving and receiving. Hasn’t it been said that it is better to give than to receive? The health and the longevity is a result of the outward flow of this energy. Giving the support is the correct direction of flow of this energy. There is nothing wrong with receiving the support, and in fact it can cause us to be grateful, appreciative and loving – but wanting or desiring support would be energy flowing in the wrong direction and would be counterproductive. It would shut off our fountain of youth.
In the Gita this energy is described in terms of the three Gunas: Satvas, Rajas and Tomas. Satvas is the highest level, followed by Rajas and then Tomas. I equate Satvas with love, or energy flowing outward, Rajas with need or desire, or energy flowing back to the self, and Thomas with apathy, or no energy going anywhere. There are biblical references to this as well. Christ made some reference to preferring persons hot or cold, but definitely, not luke-warm. Tomas is the lowest of the three gunas. It equates to apathy or being luke-warm.
In the Gita it states that the route from Tomas to Satvas sometimes is through Rajas, or – stated in English, the route from apathy to love sometimes is through need. Many years ago I developed a means of instantly converting persons from apathy to love, by triggering need but preventing hurt or jealous feelings. It is possible to take the most distant apathetic relationship, trigger need but prevent hurt or jealous feeling, and precipitate intense feelings of love.
For example, the wife of a political figure in Washington gradually became viewed as dull and mundane by her husband – because he was travelling around the world to exciting places and meeting daily with important people. When he would come home, he was exhausted and would open a can of beer and watch a soap opera on television. She became very upset and her needs were intensified by his lack of interest and affection.
Suddenly one day he became very interested in her; we applied the approach of converting tamas to satvas through rajas. This always works if done properly. On my advice, she told him that she really cared about him, that he was number-one in her life, and that she wanted him to do whatever made him happy. She understood he was tired when he came home after a very hard day and just needed to relax and put his feet up and have a can of beer. This was OK with her – but meanwhile she was going stare-crazy just looking at the four walls and having no one to talk with. So would he mind, would he object, would it be OK if she went out to the local nightclub just to socialize, dance, meet people and have a good time. She presented this in such a way that of course he had to say go ahead, enjoy yourself.
Note there was nothing to stir jealousy or anger: She did not say “You are not paying attention to me so I am going to go out and meet other people who will pay attention to me.” Instead she asked “do you mind if.,” and he gave her permission. She of course does not need permission, but she needs to not stir feelings of hurt, anger and jealousy – if she wants his love and interest instead.
This middle-aged housewife was far too anxious about stepping out alone to actually go into the nightclub, so she drove around the block several times and went to a fast food restaurant, lingering and not returning home until about midnight. Her husband was up and waiting for her. He was interested in how her evening went, and she told what a wonderful time she had and the interesting people she met. His level of interest in her skyrocketed, and for the next several months everywhere he traveled around the country he invited her to go with him. This was good for him and for her, because he felt better too when his love energy was intensified.
After a few months his level of interest settled back down and so she tried the approach once more. This time she made the mistake of stirring hurt, anger, need and jealousy. When she returned home at midnight he was already asleep, so she fell asleep on the sofa, and then at 4AM went tip toeing upstairs. He awakened infuriated, calling her names saying he wanted nothing to do with her. But had she said “I met a great group of people and probably won’t get back until 4AM,” there would have been no jealousy whatsoever, just interest directed outward, toward her, which is love.
The Love Energy – THE FLOW OF LOVE ENERGY
When you understand the flow of love energy you can redirect it at will. To help a person recover from a serious illness, get that person to help someone else – or to help others with the same illness. One of my patients with AIDS is experiencing a substantial improvement in his condition since he has started counseling people in the hospital who are dying from the disease. Get the patient’s energy flowing outward, have the patient help others, encourage the person’s religious practices – and here you might have to redirect the person from the give me, give me, give me prayers to “I love you, I love you, I love you” type prayer.
Fear is the antithesis of love and it is counterproductive: It focuses attention and energy on the self. Picturing the self to be well, the body free from disease, knowing and trusting this is so, and helping others recover — perhaps from similar problems — is far more productive. For the healing process it is important to avoid anger, hatred, bitterness, worry – and to focus instead on intensifying love, caring, doing for others with no regard for anything in return, and the expression of devotional love and appreciation. All of this enhances the life force, the healing energy, and the recovery process.
This love energy appears to follow precise laws, that are like other laws of physics, and which appear to be quantitative. Of all things to study in medicine today, it is the analysis of this love energy itself which might be the most rewarding and productive. It is this love energy to which I hope to devote a large portion of the remainder of my life. Likely it is the most important factor for healing and for longevity since Seleye discovered stress, yet it is equally as invisible as was stress at the turn of the previous century.
We have many soul mates, but not cause we knew them in the past lives, if talking about time on the soul level, there is no time at all , so we can imagine how it’s look like living where the souls are, a place where time is dimension, you can move back in time, so in this case we are all soulmates… because we came from 1 soul the first man… So soulmate love comes from other reason, it’s the soul level energy that pull us, to like each other and some time to fall in love. More and more people can find soul mates now because of the internet, and this have nothing to do with some change in “the electromagnetic pull of the earth” nor cause we started love our self more, people love them selves all the time and way to much, this is the problem, not the reason why they find soulmates… and sex was and is one of the biggest force and form of self love, mostly in males of any animal, this what push any animal for find a mate and secure the survival of the species, it is the natural force of evolution, nothing to do with soul mates !
I also don’t believe in “calling your soulmate ” I believe people should put themselves out there in any place they can, and say it loud and clear, that they are looking for real love ! call it soul mate or not … and look for it, search it, till you’ll find one of yours, there are millions of soul mates to any one, just find them and with one of your potential soul mates, you may have real love, the internet is the best way to do so, now ! The creator will not help you out, he don’t go and help people on personal level! He put his angels ( so called Elohim ) long ago in the creation time, this was about 14 milliard years ago ( in our 3D earthly time counting ) in the time of the so called ‘ big-bang ‘ ! Those angelic forces are pushing any living thing in the universe to advance on the spiritual level in evolutionary process.
The Angels teaching us the creator will – how to love, by pushing us in the life needs. So yes this include sex, power, greed and all the bad things that we know life bring. Most of the time we learn with the negative aspect of life, so with the opain this life bring, we learn and understand that this isn’t the way, this called the way of life, but we must force our self to be better and come over our egoistic body needs, cause we are not our bodies, we are the souls, jailed in our bodies, unfortunately too many times we learn only by the negative side, by pain, we don’t really learn from other mistakes, we have to do them all over again, people learn by the way of life the difference from good and evil or in other way the different from love and hate, or give and take, but this take time, not everyone are on the same understanding of the real reality. The way we understand life called, soul level and from this, the importance of finding soul mate, one who can walk with you in the same path on the same life level understanding, so together you can advance as fast as possible and in the same path… ( so this love will not brake ). Because there is one thing that we can’t have in life – rolling time back… so time is the most expansive thing and there for, it is so important to find your soul mate as fast as possible in life, it is your obligation to your self, your soul, to do what ever you can, while you are alive, to find a soul mate that can help you advance your soul.
Just Hidding and pray your God , will not help! Put your self out there in every dating website, every group or try any other way that may lead you to your soul mate, this is not just the right way, it’s the must way… You need to simply search for one soul mate and I’m sure you’ll find, cause there are millions in your soul level out there !
One thing though can block anyone from finding love; when someone don’t love him self, this is maybe the biggest problem people have in life, luck of understanding that they can be anything they wish to be, if they really want it… but that’s for other post 🙂
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